What's already solid
You're explicit about the trade-off — flexibility vs pay. Naming the tension is harder than pretending it isn't there.
What you're missing
The commute is a daily tax. One extra hour each way is ~250 hours a year — roughly six weeks of your life. Compounding.
The Critic's parting question
Six months in, what would make you want to quit the new job? If you can name three things easily, sit with that now.